We are still very much together. This December I got a chance to spend 3 weeks with girl over New Years. I have to say spending New Years in shorts and t-shirts was amazing. Girl is planning to come up visit in a few months so we have a lot going on.
I am job hunting yet again, and I have had a few medical problems that almost stopped me from seeing her. However, I am getting better, and things are going as smoothly as they be right now with all things considered.
I see that we have a ton of qustions, Girl and Myself will be awsering them soon.
We’re here! We’re still together! We’re still LDR! We just became horrible at updating!
aileennoyle asked: Hello, I just signed up to tumblr because I really want to ask you a question. I've been following you guys for a while, and I'm in a long distance relationship as well. Things haven't going really good lately, my boyfriend and I kinda tend to argue a bit, so I was wondering if you guys went through a bad period like this, and what did you do to solve it. You really seem so happy together, I wish you all the best. =)
Well, it’s never easy. And yes, we do have our ups and downs, just like everyone. Sometimes is just too easy to focus on the bad, the distance, and the pain that being away for so long can give you. I’ve had times when I was just being very selfish and down…
My advice is to try to just talk things out, and focus on being with each other. For me, it’s the thought of finally getting to hold her again that keeps me going.
June 17th, 2011
It’s the eve of my birthday, and even though I was hoping to be able to see Girl by now I have good news… I may have finally gotten a nice paying job, and with it I have paid vacation…. that means I will be able to see her soon. *fingers crossed* I did well on the interview and start next week. Lets hope this works out.
I miss her so much.
experienceisaquality asked: Your blog is so lovely. I'm actually falling in love with it, after following it for at least 6 months over on Blogger.
Anyhow... This is a crappy little drawing I made for a contest on DeviantART. It was one of the winning entries. Even though it was mainly my own situation that inspired it, your blog had a really big impact on me, and was a lot of the inspiration for it... so I figured I'd share it. :)
We’re glad others in our same situation can feel inspired by our little rambles. :) Your drawing is lovely!
first-nation-penatration asked: how do you keep a LDR's sex life still fun and exciting?
Fredericks of Hollywood.
Well, that’s a very long answer, Boy…
Anything that’s intimate and enjoyed by both can be considered ‘sex life’, you just gotta be creative. It could be a surprise when they pick up the Skype call, or some ol’ chat roleplaying… We tend to ignore the suggestions you find on websites, and just think about what we both like. It all depends on your levels of naughtiness. ;)
preciousxjunk asked: this is such a sweet little tumblr. You guys make my heart go squishy :3 I wish nothing but happiness for you guys :)
Thank you for the kind words! :)
twobutterflies asked: Guys I love your blog!
Girl How often do you see your boyfriend?
The last time we saw each other in person was in December 2009. We had planned after that to see each other at least twice next year. Things didn’t work out (read: money), so now we’re bustin’ our butts working to save up and have an amazing time together.
However, we ‘see’ each other via Skype everyday. Even the days we’re mad at each other, or that someone feels a bit sick, we need to see each other, even if it’s for a little bit.
talloa asked: you guys are awesome :D i`m glad u`re baaaack :D and on tumblr :D this is greaat!!!
loving all the photos :D
Hopefully it will get us back to posting! The old site had its issues…
April 29th, 2011
I have been busting my butt since getting fired last year. I am working again but this time only part time, and it’s just not enough for me to save up anything to see her. So work isn’t working out for me right now.
It’s really stressful not having any money. I am sure some of you can relate, but the worst part is not being able to even plan a date. I want to be with her so bad it’s driving me crazy. It has been so long since I have held her in my arms, it’s maddening. I am looking for a second job hopefully that will be enough to see her soon.